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The Need for a Tamed Tongue (Part I)
The Bible has many scriptures about the use of tongue, and it gives us instrunctions about the improper use of tongue and the blessing of using our tongue appropriately.
See how great a forest a little fire kindles! And the tongue is a fire, a world of iniquity. The tongue is so set among our members that it defiles the whole body, and sets on fire the course of nature; and it is set on fire by hell. For every kind of beast and bird, of reptile and creature of the sea, is tamed and has been tamed by mankind. But no man can tame the tongue. It is an unruly evil, full of deadly poison. With it we bless our God and Father, and with it we curse men, who have been made in the similitude of God. Out of the same mouth proceed blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not to be so. Does a spring send forth fresh water and bitter from the same opening? Can a fig tree, my brethren, bear olives, or a grapevine bear figs? Thus no spring yields both salt water and fresh. James 3:7-12
The Bible confirms that our tongue is not easily tamed and that it is easier to tame unruly animals than it is to rein in the tongue. Furthermore, the tongue is very two-faced; it can speak on spiritual matters and at other times speak evil things. The tongue has the potential to burn people and relationships if it remains untamed!
His mouth is full of cursing and deceit and oppression; Under his tongue is trouble and iniquity. Psalm 10:7
Nowadays, people have developed unbridled tongues and are not ashamed to use profanity and cursing among themselves or on social media. The movies are full of profanities and many are made with R rating, which gives them the freedom to use cursing as often as possible. Unfortunately, many young people are not bothered by bad language, and they think that it is just a form of expression.
I was a substitute teacher in a freshman class a couple of weeks ago, and the book they were using had profanities in it including one used in conjunction with the name of Jesus. This was very disturbing to me and since the teacher wasn’t there, I sent her an email explaining my concern to her. I told her that we already have enough profanity in our culture and the school should be there to set the standard and the code of conduct for what is appropriate language in society. She disagreed with my views. She explained that we live in a pluralistic society, and what is unacceptable to some maybe acceptable to others. Furthermore, the educators had decided the literary benefits of this book outweigh the negative affect of profanities!
This is the culture we live in and our children are not protected from it. People have become boastful and proud, and they don’t seem to have a regard for God or respect for people. We live in dangerous times and our tongue could create a hostile and volatile environment resulting in division and breakdown of our communities and society.
It is important to be vigilant with our tongue and not allow any unwholesome words to come out of it. As believers, we have other ways of dealing with our frustration and anger. We can go to the Lord and pray about them and cast our cares on Him. It is not necessary to spew out evil in the name of being real or the need for venting. Let’s be mindful of our tongue this week and ask the Lord to give us self-control to not use it in a harmful and evil way.
The Position of Humility
I had the privilege of sharing a message titled, “Position of Humility” with the women at my church a couple of weeks ago. Below, you will find the audio recording of the message. The message is about 50 minutes.
There are a couple of moments when there is a bit of silence in the audio. I wrote a couple of things on the white board as follows:
After the fall, Adam and Eve’s relationship was severed causing shame. In addition, their relationship to one another broke down leading to blame.
Shame= I am defective
Blame= You are defective
Towards the end of the audio, I showed two puzzles as shown below.
Below is the message:
Quietness and Rest (Part III)
For thus says the Lord God, the Holy One of Israel:
“In returning and rest you shall be saved;
In quietness and confidence shall be your strength.”
But you would not,
And you said, “No, for we will flee on horses”—
Therefore you shall flee!
And, “We will ride on swift horses”—
Therefore those who pursue you shall be swift! Isaiah 30:15-16
The horse is prepared for the day of battle, but deliverance is of the Lord. Proverbs 21:31
In the above scriptures, God told the Jewish people that horses were not a strategy for their deliverance because the enemy would have more swift horses. In our day and age, the swift horses would be relying on our education, ingenuity, expertise, or relationships to be the answer for our deliverance. In the proper balance, there is nothing wrong with those things, but when they take the place of relying on the Lord for deliverance, they are a cheap and ineffective substitute!
It’s difficult to be quiet, rest in God, and not have a plan. We live in a culture that everyone is expected to have a plan for their lives. Parents strategize for the kids’s future early in life. We begin asking them what they want to do in life when they are very young. By the time they are in junior high or high school, we ask them about the major they want to pursue in college and what they want to be when they grow up. Children are pressured to come up with an answer, so the adults would leave them alone! Or else, they might feel like losers with no plan or goal in life. In some ways, as parents, we don’t want them to have any down time. We are programmed to think that successful people are expected to know what they want to do and go after it with full force and speed!
It’s interesting that Jesus chose to ride on a donkey in His triumphant entry to Jerusalem. Although, He was proclaiming to be the King of the Jews, yet He did not operate like an earthly king. He did not seek to have swift horses and warriors to fight for Him. His plan and method declared that His deliverance and His strength was not coming from natural means, but it was tied to His relationship to the Lord! If it were up to His disciples, He probably would have ridden on swift horses because they did not fully understand what the His Kingdom was about. Nevertheless, Jesus was not pressured by the opposition, and neither was He influenced by His companions. He always made time to meet with the Lord and quiet Himself before Him, so He could be available to hear God’s instructions and allow the Lord to be the source of His strength and deliverance.
Our carnal nature is a like a wild horse, and it is only tamed through the power of the Holy Spirit. It is no wonder that we all have a hard time to be quiet and rest! We will be restless until we give the reins of our lives to the Lord and surrender our will and our opinions at the Cross. In the above scriptures, the Lord is telling us that there are times that no plan or preparation would give us the answers we are looking for. The deliverance will come from Him when we return to him, be quiet, and be confident as children of the Most High!