I was talking to a friend (I will call Stella) yesterday who told me that she had a breakdown of a 35 year relationship with her friend (I will call Karen) due to a political disagreement. It began with a Facebook discussion, and it eventually led to communicating privately. The problem escalated when Karen claimed that she and her sisters were Christians to enforce her views. Stella remarked that since Karen and her sisters believed that all roads lead to the same God, they cannot be Christians. In addition, Stella emphasized that Karen’s sisters were all liberals, and liberals cannot be Christians. This caused a great offense in Karen’s heart, and she felt judged by Stella. Karen told Stella that they no longer can be friends unless Stella apologizes for her comments. Stella and I had a very good discussion about this situation, and it reminded me of the subject I have been writing about this week. I think, it would benefit all of us to know on how to deal with these type of sticky situations.
Walk in wisdom toward those who are outside, redeeming the time. Colossians 4:5
First of all, convoluting the discussion of politics and faith is very dangerous, and it muddies the water to have a serious conversation with someone about salvation. In the heat of a political discussion, it is not the best time to tell someone that they are not a Christian. The person may feel that we are just trying to gain the upper hand in the argument. If the salvation of our friend is a point of concern to us, we should prayerfully consider another time to connect with them and have that important conversation. We need to mindful that their need for Salvation is much more critical than winning any political discussion and keep it in perspective when discussing politics.
But sanctify the Lord God in your hearts, and always be ready to give a defense to everyone who asks you a reason for the hope that is in you, with meekness and fear; 1Peter 3:15
Secondly, if we are going to address someone’s questionable beliefs about Christianity, we need to do it with humility and gentleness. We can ask them questions rather than making direct remarks about their that causes walls to be erected. Paul did this masterfully in Athen (See Acts 17). We can ask them, “Do you know what the Bible says about this subject?” or “Are you aware what Jesus said about this issue?” Sometimes we may not be prepared to have a Biblical answer or offer a scripture related to the subject. In this situation, we can challenge ourselves and the person to search the scripture and talk at a later time about our findings. This approach can also apply to those who truly are believers but have differing views on politics or other subject matters.
Thirdly, Christianity cannot be equated to a political party or left/right leaning views. People choose their politics primarily based on their family of origin, their history, and their experience with civil government. Many people do not agree with everything a political party stands for, but they lean towards one because of certain issues that are a priority to them. Over the years, I have met and discussed politics with sincere believers from various political leanings. It is important not to draw a conclusion on someone’s faith purely based on their political standing.
There is much hatefulness going on in our culture right now. In addition, the enemy is after God’s people to be divided over political issues. As God’s people we should be the ones who set the standard for how to discuss issues with honor and respect. We may disagree on some issues but still work together for the betterment of all Americans. If we allow political labels to divide us, then there is no hope for society since we as Christians should know better. The best earthly systems and governments of the world will not last through eternity. We need to be in the business of helping solve societal problems but never lose focus that the most important assignment is to grab people from the pit of hell regardless of their political leanings.
