Tolerance is one of the readily used terms in our society nowadays. It is generally used for behaviors that are different from a majority group or to squelch disagreements about a topic. The idea is that, in a pluralistic society, in order to keep unity, we should tolerate each other and not judge those who are different than us. Worldly tolerance does not require an internal change from either party but just a behavior modification to acquiesce to others’ views. This idea has also infiltrated the body of Christ as well.
The truth is that the scripture does not give us a mandate for tolerance. However, it teaches how to relate to one another appropriately.
with all lowliness and gentleness, with long suffering, bearing with one another in love. Ephesians 4:2
Paul tells the believers in Ephesus that in order to get along with others, one must have humility, gentleness, and patience. These character qualities, allow us to be long suffering when others may be weak and immature spiritually. We recognize that God has accepted them and is working on them. Therefore, we accept them on their process of growth with God.
It is actually reported that there is sexual immorality among you, and of a kind that even pagans do not tolerate: A man is sleeping with his father’s wife. And you are proud! Shouldn’t you rather have gone into mourning and have put out of your fellowship the man who has been doing this? For my part, even though I am not physically present, I am with you in spirit. As one who is present with you in this way, I have already passed judgment in the name of our Lord Jesus on the one who has been doing this. 1 Corinthians 5:1-3
In a sexual immorality case, Paul expected that the church take a stance by mourning and not allowing the individuals to continue to live in sin and still remain part of the church. It is interesting that Paul specifically tells us to mourn. When we are sad about someone’s sin, we are able to show love, concern, and acceptance without being harsh. The scripture is clear that we are not to tolerate overt sin and allow it to go on without holding people accountable.Correction is not contrary to accepting people. Because we love and accept people, we correct them by helping them not to be ensnared by sin.
Sometimes the body of Christ hesitates to hold people accountable in order to show tolerance and understanding. God has a standard for those who call themselves believers. It does not mean that Christians are perfect, but it does mean that Jesus’ bride is not called to live a lifestyle of sin.
I will continue with this subject in the next devotional.
