The Lord has given us keys in His word that provide an insight on how we can be joyful and remain joyful.
Deceit is in the heart of those who devise evil, But counselors of peace have joy. Proverbs 12:20
When God teaches us to do something, it is not only pleasing to Him, but it is also life-giving to us! In the above scripture, He calls us to be peacemakers and to walk in ministry of reconciliation. Sometimes people can resort to gossip, backbiting, and manipulation when they are upset with an individual. This approach may bring temporary relief to an anguished heart, but it is soulish and will not produce good fruit! Strife will alway steal our joy. On the other hand, when we live out our calling as peacemakers, it calms our hearts and brings us joy because we have lived life according to his design and purpose!
A man has joy by the answer of his mouth, And a word spokenin due season, how good it is! Proverbs 15:23
Our words can get us into trouble faster than other areas of our lives. The book of James tells us how difficult it is to tame the tongue because it can be so unruly. The more we exercise self-control on our words and carefully deliver them, the more joyful we will be.
The enemy looks for opportunities to accuse us of what we have said or done. When our words are inappropriate, he can a have field day making us feel ashamed and guilty. On the other hand, when we speak in faith and share life-giving words, it brings life and joy into our hearts as well as those around us!
We can see the impact of our words on children very easily. What we say and how we say it, can either cause them to shrivel or blossom! Discerning what motivates each person can help us in choosing words that are edifying and life-giving to them. We cannot overcome a negative situation with more negativity. When we choose to be life-giving, it dissipates negativity and produces joy in everyone’s life.
I will continue with this subject in the next devotional.
